A 5-WEEK LIVE IMMERSION
The Secure Attachment Immersion
Attachment wounds heal where they were created - in relationships.
An immersive and experiential program where individual attachment work meets live community, with people who truly understand your journey — guided by expert psychologists and therapists.
Trusted by over 100 participants worldwide.
STARTING APRIL 22nd, 2026!
Sign Up now"This was a much needed deep dive in my relational blueprint. Apart from the solid content, for me all the sharing practices revealed and rewired my inner landscapes. I think, feel, behave and relate differently now and it’s life changing."
-Henk Petter, Psychologist
”I can really recommend this experience to anyone who wants to increase their awareness of themselves, their relationships and heal relational wounds”
- Kataryna, Graphic Designer
Signs that your attachment patterns are running under the surface:
- Do you struggle to express needs or feel uncomfortable taking up space?
- Do you avoid setting boundaries, fearing others will leave?
- Are you using addictions or substances to fill emotional voids?
- Do you fear commitment or feel overwhelmed by relationships?
- Do you need constant validation but judge yourself for it?
- Do you have trouble reaching out when you need support?
- Do you use sex to measure relationship quality?
- Do you find yourself both fearing and longing for connection?
- Do you get caught in push-pull dynamics of chasing or avoiding?
- Do you overthink others' behaviors and what they mean?
- Do you struggle to trust that you're loved and valued?
What bemomes possible in relationships from an inner state of secure attachment?
Almost everyone who finds their way to attachment work discover something similar (even after 10-15+ years of inner work):
- A felt sense of being enough takes root — not as a belief you hold, but as an embodied experience.
- Comfort and closeness feels more natural and available — you can let people in, and let their care actually land.
- Conflict stops feeling like a threat — and can be navigated with more trust in yourself and the other person.
- The inner critic softens as a natural consequence of feeling more settled inside.
- Your needs become something you can name and offer — not hide or apologize for.
- Your actions start coming from your authentic self, rather than from old survival strategies.
- The good things in life become more available to you — connection, creativity & joy.
When we find safety and belonging with the people we care about, we create the foundation for authentic intimacy and independent exploration of who we are and what we can create.
From an inner secure base, we have something truly valuable to offer ourselves and others: love, friendship, and deep care.
Attachment Healing
+ Community
= Secure Relating
Dear friend,
I'm really happy to see you here.
If I could share only one thing with you, it would be this: insight alone doesn't change attachment patterns.
As a clinical psychologist, and drawing from 25 years experience in the field of attachment healing, I've watched people read every attachment book, understand their patterns perfectly, and still feel stuck. Because attachment wounds weren't created through studying—they were created through relationship. And they heal the same way.
This is why we built something different.
A live immersion where you practice secure relating with real people, in real time, with expert guidance—and then continue that practice in community for as long as you need.
Two fundamental truths guide everything we do:
- We cannot avoid the deep impact our attachment patterns have in our lives
- We were not meant to figure this out alone
I have seen how commitment to secure relating REALLY changes lives. I would love to share this heartfelt work together.
I hope you feel welcomed here.
Kindly,
MARTIN JONSSON
Father
Clinical Psychologist
Founder, The Secure Base Lab
INTRODUCING
The Secure Attachment Immersion
A live online 5-week immersion designed to move you from understanding attachment to actually practicing secure relating.
The live format enables you to interact in real-time with our psychologists and therapists, and with fellow travelers on the journey.
Sessions include a powerful blend of grounding practices, attachment psychology, sharing, somatic integration, and Q&A's.
You will learn & heal experientially, doing the work together with others committed to relational healing. All sessions are recorded and you're welcome to join from anywhere.
After the immersion, you're invited to continue in our ongoing community — where deeper integration happens over time.
"Secure attachment isn't about never feeling anxious or having needs. It's about learning to meet those needs with compassion and ask for support when you need it."
Sign Up Now"Coming from an avoidant attachment, I can now see how I've distanced myself and how I've used drugs to compensate for unexpressed needs and emotions. Thanks to the course I've found a place in myself where I feel safe and calm without having to run away."
-Mia
"The Secure Base Lab helped shine a light on the role my early developmental years have played in the formation of inner and outer relational patterns. The training has been a launchpad for me to reconnect with what brings my life deep meaning, and I am honored to be and feel a part of the generous Secure Base Lab community."
-Jo Hopkins, Chef & Entrepreneur
How It Works
The Immersion + Community model recognizes a fundamental truth: attachment repair begins with awareness and learning new skills, but lasting change requires ongoing practice.
The 5-Week Immersion creates the foundation—the concepts, skills, experiences, and relationships you need.
The Ongoing Community provides the container where those seeds grow into lasting change.
You'll never be learning alone or just absorbing information. Instead, you're part of a carefully designed journey where live connection meets personal reflection, expert guidance meets peer support, and individual insights get practiced in real relationships.
Weekly LIVE Sessions
We meet twice weekly for experiential live sessions that promote learning, connection, emotional awareness and somatic presence to create "corrective emotional experiences"—the heart of your transformation.
Share challenges, receive support, practice grounding, and embody secure relating in real-time connection.
Weekly schedule
Wednesdays 5:30-7:30 PM CET
Attachment Psychology + experiential learning
Sundays 10:30 AM-12:00 PM CET
Community Connection + deep sharing and support
Personal Practice & Workbooks
Every Monday, you'll receive a workbook with curated materials, resources and step-by-step practices you can do at your own pace.
- Journaling prompts designed to deepen your attachment awareness and track your growth.
- Practices to help you stay grounded and well regulated throughout your day will help you build your nervous system toolkit for any situation.
- Study & Resources - curated content from leading attachment experts, and skill-building modules you can explore when you want to go deeper.
Community
At the Heart of everything we do at The Secure Base Lab is community:
A safe space for learning, healing and experimenting with attachment healing and secure relating. It functions as your:
- Attachment lab - corrective experiences in real time.
- Regulation support - co-regulate and learn to receive.
- Empathy practice - attune, witness, and be seen/known.
Between sessions we connect via our community forum, keeping the process alive in daily life.
Self-Regulation Workshop (Bonus!)
Real change happens when a new experience lands in the body.
In this dedicated 2-hour live workshop, we move work specifically with embodiment: somatic tools nervous system regulation practices that anchor what you're learning in the immersion.
You'll leave with practices you can return to again and again, in the moments that matter most.
2 hours of live, embodied practice (value €79)
Join The Secure Attachment 5-Week Immersion
What you'll walk away with:
- A felt understanding of your attachment patterns — recognizable in your body and your daily relationships.
- A practical toolkit for self-regulation — so you can stay grounded when you get triggered, rather than reacting from old patterns.
- Real experience of being seen — you'll have actual corrective emotional experiences, not just knowledge about them.
- A shared language and framework — making future conversations about your needs and patterns clearer and less loaded.
- Softer self-relationship — participants consistently report becoming more loving with themselves.
- A secure base to return to — a community of people who understand the journey, so you're no longer figuring this out alone.
- Clarity on what comes next — whether that's deeper individual work, continued community, or simply better relationships.
IMMERSION OVERVIEW
The 5 Modules
Each week contains a carefully designed theme, two live sessions and a workbook that each build on each other. Together we journey through the essential foundations of attachment healing.
MODULE 1
The Journey to Secure
Embark on the journey toward secure attachment through deep sharing and support, somatic grounding meditations, and live coaching anchored in vulnerability and compassion. We explore the existential value of living from secure inner dynamics, and create rituals of safe space while forming our supportive community.
MODULE 2
The Roots of Attachment
Dive into the hidden blueprint of your relational life—the Internal Working Models formed in childhood that still shape your expectations of yourself and others. Uncover how these core beliefs influence every relationship and learn gentle tools for transformation. We explore the emotions that arise when touching these tender places of met and unmet attachment needs.
MODULE 3
Attachment Awareness
Learn to catch those moments when your attachment system goes online—when old needs for validation and comfort get triggered in close relationships. Develop the foundational skill of recognizing fight, flight, or freeze responses before they take over. We explore how to pause and respond rather than react, breaking free from "insecure dance" patterns.
MODULE 4
Self-regulation
Explore how childhood coping strategies evolved into your current emotional patterns and discover the 5 steps of emotion regulation. Develop strategies to overcome emotional avoidance and practice attachment-based somatic approaches. We explore emotional core regulation as the key component connecting all areas of self-regulation.
MODULE 5
Secure Base Integration
Learn to soften reactivity and move away from blaming ourselves or others, by practicing secure behaviors in close relationships. Discover the 3 pillars of being a Secure Base and develop skills for rupture-repair cycles. We explore how to integrate emotional self-regulation with cognitive work and physical relaxation for lasting relational security.
What happens after the immersion?
The Secure Base Lab Community
The world's first community aimed at attachment healing, guided by a collective of psychologist, therapists and researches, passionate about the wisdom and science of secure realting
The 5-week immersion plants the seeds. The community is where they grow. Integration is the key.
Attachment healing is not a quick fix. Patterns that took years to form shift through consistent practice in safe relationship—not through a single program, no matter how powerful.
"The immersion opens the door. The community keeps it open."
After completing the immersion, you're invited to join our ongoing community where you can deepen and expand what you have learned. Our community is an invitation to a secure base—a safe place to return to as you continue practicing secure relating in all areas of your life.
What's Included in Community Membership (€99/month):
Weekly Events
Community Sessions: Continue learning, share and witness each other’s journeys—gently guided by monthly themes that support deep healing.
CARE-Groups: Continue your journey in small groups focused on your current area of growth.
Peer Support
Community forum: Connect with friends in the community, ask questions, and share experiences in our online forum.
Cohort Integration: Meet with your original cohort to reconnect and integrate on a deeper level together.
Monthly Workshops
Self-Regulation: Learn specific ways to use mindfulness, breath work, imagination, and somatic tools to anchor secure traits in the body and mind.
Attachment "Clinics": Bring your personal attachment challenges and receive 1:1 support from us.
About The Secure Base Lab
The Wisdom and Science of Secure Relating.
We are a collective of therapists, psychologists, and researchers on the path of secure relating, just like you. We don't teach attachment theory from a distance - we teach it from inside a living practice of healing and growth, alongside you.
At the heart of what we do is a simple understanding: secure relating is not a personality trait you either have or don't. It's a skill - and a journey that unfolds over time, in real relationship, with real support.
The Immersion is where that journey begins. An experiential dive into attachment healing that is deep and transformative in itself.
For those who want to keep going, the Community is where the work continues - week after week, with trusted guides and fellow travelers, until secure relating becomes not something you practice, but something you live.
Welcome to a community where science meets heart, and where your journey is guided by passionate professionals.
Meet Your Facilitators
Ivan Raphael
Main facilitator. Ivan is a somatic trauma therapist, family therapist, and a founding facilitator at The Secure Base Lab. His approach draws on relational and somatic models, grounded in both clinical training and lived experience with attachment dynamics.
His passion lies in developing interpersonal skills and supporting the body's innate capacity for integration and visceral understanding in attachment healing.
He works as a school counselor and in private practice, and offers workshops across Denmark and Sweden.
Tom Lidström
Co-pilot. Tom is a meditation teacher and attachment focused therapist with a background in business and intentional community leadership.
He offers retreats and individual sessions and works at the intersection of spirituality and attachment work.
Tom is one of the co-creators of The Secure Base lab.
Martin Jonsson
Clinical support. Martin is a psychologist with a deep passion for attachment healing and community building, and the founder of The Secure Base Lab.
He draws from multiple therapeutic traditions and over 25 years experience working with individuals and communities.
Martin lives in the countryside with his partner and their two children.
Want to explore 1:1 with us?
You're welcome to book a FREE 30 min discovery call. We'd love to hear from you!
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“Being authentic about our deepest needs and boundaries allows us to deepen intimacy and autonomy in ways that enrich both our lives and the lives of those we love.”
MARTIN JONSSON
FOUNDER OF THE SECURE BASE LAB
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